No single person is going to solve all of the world’s problems, but we can all make a difference by leading by positive example and not resorting to the kind of behavior that perpetuates negativity, increases hate, promotes intolerance & encourages violence.
Whether it helps, inspires, or motivates one person or one hundred, every good deed, display of selflessness & act of kindness matters.
And whether it’s the result of a conscious effort or simply a reflexive gesture, every person who acts with integrity and sets a good example for others to follow becomes a catalyst for positive change.
One adds far more value to their life by contributing something of value to other people’s lives than they do by seeking to benefit only their own.
“Try not to become a [person] of success. Rather become a [person] of value.” — Albert Einstein
- Collect value by contributing value
- If you want kindness, be kind.
- Being “awesome” doesn’t mean simply existing.
- Want to feel better?
- If you want more kindness in the world, put some there.
- Help create a perpetual kindness machine
- Be a catalyst for kindness
Originally Published on: Jul 17, 2015 @ 16:34
If you want to make a positive difference, but don’t know how, helping those who help others is a great place to start.
In the same way that the hardest lessons we learn in life are often the most valuable, so, too, are the difficult people we meet along the way.
Even the unfriendliest and most challenging person we cross paths with has something of value to teach us about ourselves.
Sometimes we need to learn patience. Sometimes it’s self-discipline. Sometimes it’s to not let other people have so much control over our thoughts, feelings, and emotions.
Whatever it may be, the people we find particularly challenging are valuable because they can instantly highlight weaknesses in our self-control. They can trigger us to think, act, or behave in such a way that isn’t congruent with the type of person we want to be.
But every experience we have in life — whether we choose to label it as “good” or “bad” — is an opportunity for growth. And every encounter we have with difficult people provides us with an opportunity to identify the things we need to work on in order to close the gaps between the person we are and the person we want to be.
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” — Victor Frankl
A key to surviving experiences with difficult people — without being brought to the brink of behaving badly — is to remember that we may not always know what to do, but we can always choose the type of person we want to be.
And, with practice, we can choose to refuse to let others cause us to act in a way that is in direct conflict with the person we picture ourselves as.
And we can create the frame of mind necessary to do this by choosing to see the value in the negative people we encounter in life by actively using our experiences with them in such a way that we become not bitter, but better.
- One less rhinoceros (intentions vs actions & dealing with mean people)
- One less idiot
- Break the chain
- You may not always know what to do, but you can always choose…
- You aren’t who you think you are. The problem with the expression “Be yourself”.
- Be the kind of person that your heroes would be proud of.
- An honest enemy is better than a false friend
- Who we are today
- Contrast is good
- Growth and Discomfort : Getting outside of your comfort zone
- Strength from discomfort
Originally Published on: Jul 14, 2015 @ 06:42