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The fact that you’ve probably never enjoyed listening to anyone else complain is a pretty solid sign that no one enjoys listening to you do it either.
Help stamp out rampant complaining.
Always focus on solutions and what is within your power to change.
Even just changing your message from, “This is a problem!” to “This is a problem and I want to fix it.” changes your tone, implies there is a real purpose for your message, and invites a discussion for solutions.
- The problem with problems.
- Self-imposed limitations: A tough pill to swallow
- There are many things in this world that you are not responsible for…
- Offsite: Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction