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True leaders


True leaders don’t waste time trying to convince others of their importance because they know that their leadership skills are demonstrated by how they act and how they make others feel, not by how highly they speak of themselves.

True leaders are fare more likely to make others feel important than they are to spend time trying to convince people of their importance.

Making a difference requires mindfulness


Do you care about your friends? Your neighbors? Your community? Local businesses? Your city? If the answer is yes, what are you doing that demonstrates these things in a significant and meaningful way? It’s one thing to think & say that you care. It’s another thing entirely to actively demonstrate it through your actions & lifestyle.

Making a difference means being mindful of the people, places, and things that you can make a difference with and then taking action in a meaningful way. The act of not making things worse is not the same thing as making things better.

IDGAF

Lessons Learned from The Path Less Traveled by Zero Dean

The fact is that everyone – on some level – cares what other people think. So the more you try to act cool by making a show of how much you don’t care, the more you betray the image you’re trying to project. Caring about things or what people think is not the issue. Letting other people have control over your sense of self-worth is.

If you’re trying to earn affection or gain favor by propagating whatever sentiments society considers cool at the moment, you’re likely far more guilty of approval-seeking than you want anyone – including yourself – to believe.

“Must love dogs.”

Lessons Learned from The Path Less Traveled by Zero Dean
DATING PROFILES

Why is it always “Must love dogs.” and never:

Must be kind.
Must be loving.
Must have integrity.
Must have empathy.
Must be open-minded.
Must be able to communicate well.
Must have emotional intelligence.
Must be able to express emotions.

Based on how often “Must love dogs” comes up, you would think that finding men that like dogs is a serious problem in the dating world.

I would think finding men with the other qualities would be a little higher on the list of priorities.



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